Hey, so we all have those memories of our
childhood that just make us cringe so today I thought that I would share with
you the things that I would tell my younger self and I hope this is useful to
you:
-No matter what
happens the chances are that it will get better, I say this because I always
thought that if anything bad happened it would be the end of the world but
honestly I overreacted over everything when I was younger and I know that if
something goes wrong or makes you really upset it can be hard to see that it
can get better but if you just imagine how much harder other people’s lives are
even if you are in a terrible situation the chances are that someone else in
the world is in a worse situation and I always find that that makes me just try
and solve whatever had gone wrong or tried to get in a better mood.
-Appreciate what
you have more, we’ve all been in that situation where were acting really spoilt
and now thinking back on it now I really wish that I hadn’t because honestly I had
such an amazing child hood and to be honest I should’ve been a lot more grateful
for what I had so childhood Bella be more grateful for what you had okay? because
when your older you’re going to regret it and remember like before there will
be someone in a worse situation.
-Just because
everyone else is doing something does not mean that you have to, this is such a
cliché I know and you are all rolling your eyes at the screen because everyone
says that but honestly it is completely true and if you did what everyone else
was doing all of the time then not only would you be just like everyone else
which is boring but your allowing other people’s opinions change you which is
not ok.
-Planning helps,
so although we all ignore the teachers when they say plan before you do
something and yes planning makes things less spontaneous and more boring but in
some cases it is worth it and like some things in school they actually prepare
you for later life, however don’t take that to mean that you have to plan
everything otherwise you will end up spending more time planning things then
doing them.
-Allowing yourself
to get stressed about something will only make it worse, if your stressed about
something don’t just keep thinking about it otherwise that will stay on your
mind and the more you think about it, the more stressed you will become and the
worse the situation will be and honestly it will start to take over your life
and no one needs that so if you get yourself into a stressful situation then don’t
panic just try to solve the situation but if you can’t just let it go.
I hope that this helped you and that you
enjoyed it. Comment down below if you agree with me or if you disagree or have
anything to add. If you enjoyed it then comment, share and follow the post. Let
me know of anything you would like me to talk about in another future post.
That’s all for now,
Bella xxx
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